This and Twilight are my favourite two songs.
I wrote the music just before my mom died, and the lyrics after. It was April of 1999. My mom died on her birthday (April 28th). She was talking to her sister on the phone and collapsed during the phone call. My aunt called Fresno's 911 and my sisters, and that was that.
In Australia, I just got home from doing a graveyard shift at Plenty Valley FM and when I got to the front door (at 5 am mind you), my first wife met me there and she had been crying. She told me my sister called and that was all I needed to know. I flew out that day for a month. I slept in mom's bed for about the first week, begging for dreams, or to be haunted, or whatever. I just wanted to see my mother and have some sort of interaction. Didn't happen.The gift I had given her (Lounge Music CD) was still in her mailbox. My three sisters and I were a wreck.
I later found out my niece (who was living with my mom at the time), started having to deal with footsteps walking down the hall, the hall light turning on and off, etc. She finally had to say "Grandma, if that's you, please stop it, you're scaring me." It worked.
As for the song, someone called during the vocals and we kept it in. I think it was David Shilton, who was a musician friend of Gary's. These lyrics represent that month in Fresno, how I felt at the time, all of it.
As for the sad girl dancing thing, fuck knows where that came from. I wrote it, so I guess it was me. This is definitely one of the songs where Gary and I traded off drum fill ideas. I love that chorus. I love the whole song.
I think there's a place for metal and doof, as well. I'd love to make a whole album of it. Some day.
John / Doug teaches you to play Talking To God:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=gS4dFyHlAB8